While the cooler seasons ahead may take away your opportunity to explore outdoor sex when you’re feeling like trying something new with your partner, that doesn’t mean you can’t get creative with your sexual locations. A simple yet creative shift in perception can provide a much-needed change in your sexual landscape. No trip required.
Here are some easy yet effective ideas for exploring sex outside the bedroom to help you combat winter fears as the days shorten and the nights lengthen.
1. Sex in the Kitchen
Sex on the kitchen table? Been there, done that. Turn the entire cooking experience into a foreplay frenzy? Now we’re talking! Cook a meal together and ramp up the foreplay throughout the cooking process.
For example, try distracting yourself in playful and seductive ways while you’re washing vegetables or mixing a sauce. Just like cooking, it progresses steadily until dinner time, when you’ll find that two main courses are better than one.
2. Bathroom Sex
When it comes to bathroom sex, there are endless opportunities both inside the shower and beyond. Use your bathroom’s ambient S&M offerings to your advantage. With the help of some light bondage gear, tie your partner’s wrists to the towel rack or shower curtain rod. Alternatively, secure your partner’s spread legs to the bottom handles of the sink drawer. To set the mood for your bondage-inspired encounter, close the door and fill the room with thick steam.
3. Laundry Room Sex
Next time you’re drying some clean clothes, lean against the dryer and invite your partner to come over “to help you with some wet clothes.” In addition to providing warmth to your bottom, the noise of the dryer will emit pleasant vibrations. A perfect setup for a quick surprise, with plenty of sex positions to explore while you're at it.
4. Sex in the closet
If you're lucky enough to have a spacious walk-in closet in your home, then you should definitely consider having sex in it. It forces you to get close and intimate with your partner. All the clothes around you will give you a cozy and warm feeling. You might try your favorite standing position, either with your back against the wall, face to face, or with your back to your partner, with your chest pressed against the wall.
Do you have a standing mirror in your closet? Even better. Consider having sex in front of the mirror so you can watch yourself being fucked by your partner and accidentally catch yourself looking in the mirror, which will make the whole experience that much hotter.
5. Living Room Sex
The living room might be the most comfortable room in your house (aside from your bedroom) to have sex in. You can sit comfortably on the couch and enjoy each other. All your favorite sex positions work here: Missionary, Doggy Style, Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, Spooning, and more.
You can make Cowgirl more exciting on the couch by having the bottom partner sit comfortably while the top partner lies on them. The top partner has much more control and comfort in this position, as you can hold onto the arm of the couch or the back of it for more stability.
If you want to infuse some power play, consider using sex positions where the bottom partner is pushed off the couch or “thrown” over one side – either over their back or to the side. In this position, the top partner can exert control by pushing down on the bottom partner’s back, head, or neck and pulling their hair.
As you can see, living room sex has a lot to offer couples of all sexual tastes. So play around and see what works for you – there are enough to keep you busy for weeks!
6. Sex in the Foyer
Forgo the R&R usually associated with sex for another: risk and rush. During sex, your adrenal glands release adrenaline, giving you a feeling of excitement. Those same glands become active while trying to avoid getting caught doing something naughty. For the ultimate rush, open your front door, grab the door frame, and let your partner enter you from behind, alternating between looking outside and your reflection in the glass door.
7. Sex in the Backyard (or Front Yard)
Do you live in a house with a yard? Well, that means you have plenty of opportunities to have unforgettable, adventurous sex. As the weather cools down, it might be harder to have sex outside without catching a cold.
In the fall, if you have a backyard, you might want to pitch a tent and build a fort inside it out of warm blankets and pillows. The cozy and romantic atmosphere will be a great way to turn a sleepover at your own home into a whole new experience.
Alternatively, you could consider having sex in a car after dark. It’s the perfect outdoor/indoor experience, so you feel like you’re having sex in a public space somewhere outside while still being warm enough to not freeze during the colder seasons. Consider playing the role of horny teenagers to reminisce about the good times while you’re at it.
8. Garage Sex
You can say whatever you want, but there’s something really hot about getting naughty with your partner in a dark, dirty garage. You could plan your sexual escapade in advance and set up a cozy spot in the garage to get dirty. Or, you could follow your partner into a garage one day and see if they feel like playing around.
If a sex dungeon has been a dream of yours, you could even turn your garage into your own private sex dungeon for a day. Ropes, cuffs, and various garage tools can come in handy when it comes to bringing your sex dungeon to life. Don’t be afraid to get creative. Just make sure your partner is on board!
9. Bonus: Sex on the stairs
While not technically a room, your home’s staircase offers a kinky way to heighten your sexual prowess. Using handcuffs or ties, have your partner pin your hands and feet to the banister or railing of the staircase. Then, have your partner place a remote-controlled couple’s vibrator inside you. Order your partner to stand over the room, playfully adjusting the speeds and vibration patterns with the remote. During long-distance foreplay, see who is the first to beg for physical touch—you or your partner watching as you writhe submissively.
Remember, a multitude of possibilities await you once you start thinking outside the bedroom. So don’t be shy and let your imagination run wild as you venture outside your sexual comfort zone.