Sexual health protection
Practical guide to discreet meetings
Here are the essential, clear and realistic tips to minimize the risks of STIs (sexually transmitted infections) and other problems:
1. Condoms – the basis of protection
• Use a quality condom (Durex, Trojan, Manix, etc.) for every act — vaginal, anal and oral (if possible).
• Bring your own condoms — don’t just rely on what she brings.
• Use water-based or silicone lubricant (reduces the risk of breakage).
• Check the expiration date and put it on correctly (no air in the tip).
• Change the condom with each change of practice (oral → vaginal, vaginal → anal).
2. Hygiene before and after
• Take a shower together before starting (reduces the risk of bacterial infections).
• Wash the genital area with water and neutral soap (no aggressive vaginal douches).
• Urinate immediately after sex — helps prevent urinary tract infections.
• Bring your own towel or ask for clean towels at the hotel.
3. Regular testing
• Get tested every 1-3 months if you have frequent meetings.
• The main recommended tests: HIV, syphilis, hepatitis B/C, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HPV (if applicable).
• In Bucharest, you can go to:
• Matei Balș Institute
• Victor Babeș Hospital
• Private clinics (Regina Maria, Medlife, Sanador) — discreet and fast testing.
• Ask them to show recent tests (ideally with dates).
4. Advanced protection
• Useful vaccines: Hepatitis B, HPV (Gardasil) — talk to your doctor.
• PrEP (HIV prevention) — limited availability in Romania through certain programs (check with Matei Balș or associations).
• PEP — emergency anti-HIV treatment in the first 72 hours after an incident (go urgently to an infectious diseases hospital).
5. Red flags for her (or you)
• Discharge, irritation, sores, foul odor, visible redness → cancel.
• Many STIs have no visible symptoms, so getting tested is crucial.
6. If something happened (broken condom, unprotected sex)
• Urinate and wash the area immediately.
• See a doctor as soon as possible for PEP (HIV) evaluation and preventive treatment.
• Get tested every 2-4 weeks, then every 3 months for HIV.
The golden rule: Condom + regular testing + hygiene = the best possible shield. No escort, no matter how expensive, is worth risking your long-term health.
