Golden showers
Golden shower (or urophilia, watersports) is the erotic practice in which a person intentionally urinates on their partner's body (or vice versa), either as a power play, an act of submission/domination, or simply for the warm, wet, and intimate sensation. It's a fetish based on absolute trust and clear consent.
Soft and safe aspects:
• Relaxed preparation:
• Both of you drink plenty of water (1–2 liters 30–60 min before) for clear, almost colorless, and odorless urine. Avoid coffee, asparagus, alcohol – they alter the taste/smell.
• Shower together beforehand; the bathroom floor is the ideal place (easy to clean, intimate atmosphere with candles).
• Sensual techniques:
• Positions: She/He kneels in the tub, partner on top; or lying on his/her back, with the jet directed at the chest, abdomen, and intimate areas.
• Control the flow: Start slowly, targeting non-sensitive areas (chest, legs), then work your way up to the neck or genitals if both of you want.
• Temperature: Urine comes out at ~37°C – feels warm, comforting on cool skin.
• Erotic play:
• Domination: Verbal “permission” before urinating; intense gazes.
• Taste (optional): A splash on lips/fingers – only if both of you are OK and healthy.
• After-play: Rinse immediately with warm water, mild soap; soft towel and hugs.
• Safety & hygiene:
• Health: Both partners should be free of STIs, UTIs, or open wounds. Urine is sterile when it comes out, but bacteria can grow quickly.
• Consent: Establish a safe word; stop immediately if discomfort occurs.
• Cleanliness: Waterproof towel/blanket under you; disinfect the tub afterwards.
It's an act of total vulnerability, which can be incredibly liberating if done with love and respect.