lap dance
Lap dances are great for when you're ready, as your partner will tease you by dancing either within your reach or across your lap, with the rule that you can't touch them. The teasing and anticipation that comes with a lap dance can mean that when the main event arrives, you and your partner can barely contain themselves, which makes for a very exciting and emotional moment.
If you're lucky enough to be offered a lap dance by your partner, give them plenty of time to prepare. They'll want to choose the right music for the dance and the right clothes. Lap dances can be done in provocative clothing, topless or completely nude, and the way your partner wants to do it can change as the time gets closer. They might even want to mix it up a bit by slowly undressing for you while they dance. Whatever they decide, all you have to do is sit back and enjoy the show.
Before you start the actual dance, you and your partner may want to set some ground rules. Some people are perfectly happy to have their partner grab their hips and control their movements, but some enjoy giving a more teasing lap dance where you are not allowed to touch them at all. They may want to do this until you beg them to let you touch them all over, and this can be a lot of fun for both of you.
Lap dances can be done, as explained earlier, either on your lap or with some distance between you. If your partner chooses to use more space, they can sit you on a chair to the side of the room and slowly dance and tease their way towards you. They may also want to try climbing onto your lap and grinding on you, teasing you into touching them, or building tension for later. With all the fun you could have with a lap dance, it's not hard to see why they're so popular!